Tilly Barker

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HOW TO MAKE YOUNGER SCHOOLER DO LESSONS? HOW ARE YOU DOING IN SCHOOL? The most important thing is to understand in time how your child's relationships are developing at school - with peers, with a teacher. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for children, faced with the first setbacks, and being ridiculed by their classmates and meeting the indifference of the mentor (this happens quite often in our time), begin to feel fear, fear the next mistakes. Such feelings and emotions can be so strong that the child cannot concentrate, unable to cope with them. Children cannot explain, and often do not understand, what exactly is happening to them, but their behavior changes significantly. The main task of parents is to recognize a negative situation as soon as possible and take appropriate action immediately. A particular danger is that the child withdraws from such fears in himself, "disconnects" from the world around him, becomes somewhat inhibited. At the same time, he may look outwardly absolutely normal, serene and calm, but this impression is deceiving. No one except you knows your baby so well as to notice something wrong in time and correctly interpret it. If such a psychological trauma is not eliminated in a timely manner, it can develop into a school neurosis, as psychologists call it, which can be fraught with a nervous breakdown and various psychosomatic ailments. What should parents do in such cases? First of all, you need to show endurance and patience, calm the child and help him. You should do homework with your child, even when you are sure that he can easily cope on his own and can do the homework on his own. Under no circumstances do your homework for him, just be a support for him, encourage him, praise him - give him the opportunity to make sure that everything is working out for him. LACK OF ATTENTION. It happens that the child does not want to do homework, refuses to do homework only because this is the easiest way to attract the attention of the parents. In this case, his “I don’t want to learn lessons” means that he feels lonely, lacks parental care and affection. Then he instinctively tries to solve this problem, and since he is a smart kid, he understands that poor academic performance will cause anxiety of parents and increased attention to him. That is why he does not want to do his homework, deliberately, and possibly unconsciously, “overwhelms” his studies. The way out here is simple - surround the child with proper attention and care. Moreover, this does not have to be joint homework, rather the opposite. If you want to teach your child to do homework on their own, encourage him to actively communicate for his efforts. But this must be done wisely so that the child does not develop a feeling that your love can only be earned, he must know that you love him even when he fails and nothing happens. DIFFICULT ASSIGNMENTS. There are situations in which the reluctance to do the homework on their own is due to their objective difficulty. For example, at these times, the child may well have not developed logical thinking and it is difficult for him to do, for example, geometry . In this case, he simply does not consider it necessary to do something that he does not understand. Trying to get your child to learn their homework will only create more confusion and disobedience. If you yourself cannot help him with the very geometry, ask the professionals to provide high-quality geometry homework help , which will help the student better understand the topic and in the future understand everything much better. Which exit? Parents need to follow the reasoning of their student about the progress of solving the task, so they can understand where exactly the difficulties arise. You can't get angry and scold a child for not understanding. You should teach the child, help him, explain with examples, and only then wait that he will be able to do the homework on his own. He, of course, thinks and understands, only he does it a little differently, and in a different way than you does not mean wrong. ADDITIONAL RESOURCES: https://forum.mabonnefee.com/post/students-make-learning-videos-60d030c6d457cc6ff82e2c8a https://hcen.salud.uy/web/johnfahad/home?p_p_auth=2GsDGijI&p_p_id=49&p_p_lifecycle=1&p_p_state=normal&p_p_mode=view&_49_struts_action=%2Fmy_sites%2Fview&_49_groupId=109772&_49_privateLayout=false https://demo.socialengine.com/profile/lamimig625

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